The Innovations of Love

Had a bite to eat with a dear friend today and we began talking about innovations.

Growth. Change. It's a beautiful thing. Why do something that someone has already done? Go at it differently. Mad respect. 

We discussed change in all sorts of things. Change within oneself, viewing a situation and solving it in a different way, many things. But my favorite topic was the innovations in love. Being in love and having love is undoubtedly the most beautiful thing, but growing into a love and having it manifest in a form that many don't usually see is amorous. Growing into love with someone is different because you learn the bond that you share cannot be broken. You begin to wonder how on earth you survived without loving them in the past, loving who they are in the present, and knowing that you will  love them in the future, whereas falling in love you see them as just the now.

Basically your're growing together, and what more do you want from the person you love.

Don't get me wrong both ways are amazing. Growth. It's "in" now

I love to love, but growing into a love with an individual is definitely something new and different. Obama did it. Why can't I?

Simply, Asha